Travel is undeniably thrilling and rejuvenating, yet we’re all aware that a journey rarely unfolds without a few less-than-ideal twists. Delays and cancellations can disrupt your flight plans, the hotel you anticipated with excitement might turn out to be a disappointment, and your meticulously planned itinerary could leave you exhausted, oddly enough, longing for a break from your holiday.
I’ve had the fortune of living abroad and exploring more than 40 countries, and I’ve traversed the United States extensively. Through the years, I’ve mastered strategies to ensure a smooth arrival, so even when things don’t go as intended, I can adapt with ease.
While I’m a firm believer in the carry-on lifestyle, there are instances when checking a bag is unavoidable. This might be when you’re staying for an extended period, navigating diverse climates, or engaging in a variety of events during a single trip. I favor carry-ons to avoid the headache of lost luggage—a scenario that’s befallen me more times than I’d care to admit.
To maintain a tranquil mind and prepare for the unexpected, I pack my carry-on with essentials for the first few days of my trip—items that are indispensable in the initial stages. This includes crucial clothing for events, personal care items, a spare pair of underwear, chargers, electronics, and any valuable possessions.
Travel memes often depict the contrast between early risers and those who prefer a relaxed pace. I find myself somewhere in the middle, largely due to my unwavering commitment to the “no alarm clock” philosophy while on vacation. While I like to pack my days with activities, the truth is that I’m on holiday. My body deserves rest, and a well-rested body and mind lead to more enjoyment in the end. If that means sleeping in until 10 a.m. and indulging in a leisurely brunch in my hotel room, and not stepping outside until noon, I consider that a success.
I learned this lesson the hard way. Early in my travels, I had a trip to Ireland from Phoenix, with a connection on the East Coast. The initial flight was delayed, and I, along with a family also bound for Ireland, anxiously awaited our fate. We watched our plane depart without us and finally boarded another flight 24 hours later. They were scheduled to embark on a cruise the day after landing, which caused quite the conundrum. From then on, I always add an extra day or two to my itinerary to ensure I don’t miss any crucial departures or events.
While itineraries are fantastic, they can sometimes feel too structured for a vacation. They can also lead to an over-packed schedule. For business trips, they’re essential, but for leisure, it’s nice to have a touch of spontaneity—like popping into a charming boutique, indulging in gelato, or spending a bit more time in a favorite spot.
However, I also prefer not to arrive without any semblance of a plan. I research cool restaurants, cafes, museums, and attractions, and compile a list, noting their locations. This way, I can choose my own adventure with some structure while still being flexible.
This seemingly small detail has profoundly impacted my travel experience. Seeking out the little joys and pleasant moments around me allows me to fully immerse myself in my surroundings, soften my outlook, and feels like a genuine expression of gratitude for simply being alive. These moments can be as simple as a “I like you” sticker on a lock, a man lugging an oversized potted plant, the decorations on a doorstep, a whimsical phrase on a café board, or a butterfly dancing in a rose garden.
Travel injects numerous variables into your day, which is delightful until you find yourself exhausted, malnourished, and with a breakout. I’ve discovered that maintaining some semblance of routine can be incredibly beneficial. This means sticking to my skincare routine, going to bed at a consistent time, staying hydrated, reading for 10 to 20 minutes each night, and, if possible, exercising regularly.
